Christian website: Dont look at your wifes face during sex to enjoy it even when she resists
A Christian website that gives advice to couples about how to live by the Bibles gender roles recently advised men that they should not look at their wives faces during sex if she engaged in intercourse begrudgingly.
In a column on the BiblicalGenderRoles.com website last week, a writer going by the name Larry Solomon argued that men should not tolerate refusal.
According to the Christian columnist, women who did not like having sex with their husbands should fake it until she makes it.
But Solomon noted that coercing wives into sex did not always result in an enjoyable experience for the husband.
You also need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too, he opined. If you dont have sex with your wife at regular intervals, even sometimes when she is not in the mood but consents anyway, you will open yourself to temptation.
Focus your eyes on her body, not her face. Focus on the visual pleasure you receive from looking at her body and physical pleasure you receive from being inside your wife, Solomon recommended. You want to connect with her physically AND emotionally during sex. But your wife is the one refusing to connect with you emotionally, so you have to concentrate 100% on the physical side.
Solomon said that men should think of unwilling wives like Medusa, the mythical Greek monster who could turn men to stone if they looked upon her face.
I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. But sin is ugly, the writer remarked. Your beautiful brides face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to just hurry up and get it over with.
So like the men who could not look at Medusas face otherwise they would be killed, realize that if you look on your wifes face when she is displaying a sinful attitude toward sex it will kill your sexual pleasure and may actually make it much more difficult for you to achieve the physical connection and release that you need, he concluded. Sometimes we have to work around the sinful behavior of our wives and this will be one of those times.
In a column earlier this year, Solomon insisted that there was no such thing as marital rape. A wife, he said, could ask her husband to delay sex for a short period of time but the request must be done humbly and respectfully, and always with the attitude in mind that her body does belong to her husband.